The worrying fetishisation and objectification of black men by (mainly) white women
It never ceases to amaze me how, even though women complain about being objectified & fetishised by men all the time, only wanted by males for their bodies, the majority of women who find my website will have no problem coming on here and fetishising/objectifying me as a dominant black man based on what they may have heard about black men.
They will have no problem starting a chat with me (a stranger to them) and asking me offensive questions like: “How Big are you/is it?”, “Are you hung?”, “How many inches is it?”, “Do you have a BBc?” and so on. Questions that they would never ask a stranger on the street because such questions are both rude and PRIVATE.
Males, I am 100% STRAIGHT, so PLEASE STOP asking me gay questions about my dick!
If it’s not the women themselves, the male partners (supposedly contacting me as a black male escort on behalf of their women) also see no issue coming onto the website of a heterosexual black man who sees only female clients and asking another man how big his dick is. They see no homosexuality in asking this question of another man at all (they are usually SIMP ‘males’, but still).
Being behind a computer screen and keyboard can cause people to lose their basic sense of manners, politeness, and etiquette towards another human being.
Some seem to think that because they are paying for my service, they can ask such direct and downright rude questions like how big my cock is, as if that is all we black males should be known for!… being good at sports and having massive black cocks/BBcs!
My question is, why are we black men never seemingly wanted for our minds, our levels of high intelligence and mental smarts? Still, instead, we are only lusted after for our bodies, levels of athleticism/stamina and for having massive black dicks!?
It’s flattering at first, but it gets tiresome when every single conversation seems to be in the same place, about how big your appendage is.
On top of all the usual pressures of being a man, we black men must also be hung like horses, athletic, have inhumane levels of stamina and only wanted for our physical attributes. It really does get so tiring.
There is definitely an issue that (I am confident) is at least partially caused by the porn industry setting unrealistic standards & expectations of the majority of black males..
Black men are given terms like “Bulls”, portrayed as being “Breeding machines”, the ones beta white males bring their wives to when they want to see their wives f**ked by a real man and Dicked down properly!
Just know that if he’s black, they are likely to find the word “BBc” somewhere in the title of the majority of the videos on porn sites! It’s inevitable.
BDSM & Kink have nothing to do with the master’s cock size!
I don’t have to explain this to real submissives or dedicated female BDSM fans. I only usually find myself explaining it to inexperienced ‘newbies’ – those who may have watched BDSM-related porn, and thought it looked like something they liked the idea of, and so would like to try.
Real BDSM lovers and those who engage in the wonderful world of Kink know that BDSM has nothing to do with the size of a Master’s Penis.
If all you want to experience is a BBc, then it may be best to contact actors from porn websites rather than coming to see me for a BDSM session or a full body massage. Porn actors will be able to help you better if it’s just about dick size for you.
Because of the question about cock size, I can always tell when a client reaches out to me if they are a newbie who is just dipping their toes into this world, or if they are a genuine submissive who deserves my full time and attention.
Real submissives are all about the dynamic of dominant vs submissive and look for a master who can get them to submit without even requiring penetration.
They only want you for your D**ks!
When black women hear that us black men may be dating a white female, they can come out with things like “They only want you for your big dicks”, or “They just wanna see if the stereotype is true”… and, based on my interactions and conversations with white women, I am finding it hard to refute this claim – and i am someone who has defended white women most of my adult life.
The sheer number of white women who only seem interested in my dick and its size, rather than me as a person or the other elements of BDSM and Kink, is (I am sorry to say) proving black women right when they say that white women only want us for one thing and are not really interested in us.
This article is about black men and the typical stereotypes we have to face. I think it explains things perfectly.
Conclusion
It’s hard talking about this topic without coming across as being mean or rude myself, but what was once a flattering question that I have always answered with pride has (with time) become a boring frustration that now near-instantly gets my back UP.
It would be like me starting dialogues with females who are strangers to me with the opening line, “How big are your tits?” It’s just something that I would never do.
Even though my website is adult-themed, this is not an invitation to say anything you want to me without considering if it’s acceptable to say or not.
Black men are more than just giant walking penises, so please treat us as such.
Whether you are male or female, when reaching out to me as a black male escort, please remember your basic manners and also recognise the fact that I am a human being just like you, not just a walking black penis.
Please approach me with both manners and respect, and at least try to pretend that it’s not just my black cock you are interested in.
Approach me with manners and respect, and I will do the same. This is the best way to ensure that you get the best out of Dom Master K and even make it to a professional male escort booking.
I will see you in my DMK UK-based adult dungeons, which are also for hire by the way!
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